WHY DO WE THINK THAT WE SHOULD DO THINGS ACCORDING TO SOCIETY?
Does it maintain your prestige in society?
People will not gossip about you?
It degrades the family's so-called reputation in the fake community?
People will not judge you if you do according to them?
Don't have time to argue with people by standing against them?
Does society care about your career or your mental health?
They just want some masaledar gossip. It would be best if you worked on your passion, not what society wants you to do. Following your passion is one of those dreams that you dreamt of day and night throughout your life. Then why do all these people bother you? Working for basic essentials is not your dream; it's just a source of living.
Don't lose hope. Destiny has some other plans for you, you have to give your best, but it doesn't mean that you should wait for destiny to come handy. Because perfect time & decisions never come until we try hard. Stop listening to crap and start doing something real.
Start following your dreams, don't be afraid of getting failed because every experience gives you some learnings, some new discoveries, some unique challenges. This new path will bring confidence in you. Just believe in yourself, who you are and what you want to be, and be brave enough to take the steps towards achieving your dream. All your efforts and time you spend achieving something, directly or indirectly, will never go waste.
Here are a few quick tips you can use!
Listen only to what's needed for you.
It will not be easy, but stand up for yourself.
Instead of just talking about your dreams, show them what you can actually do.
Do not block-out from society. Instead, be in between them, with your own terms and conditions.
Don't let society invade your personal space. Boundaries are necessary.
Create your own world. There should not be any boundaries or limitations. There should be only a river with no restrictions, in which you can swim or fly, and no one is going to judge you.
When you're trying to get ahead in life, people are going to judge you. We all do it to some extent; It's human nature. You can't please everybody; you just gotta be yourself.
"Chase your dreams and screw the society. "
About The Author:
Ranu Agrawal is from Surat and is a Second Year B.com student. Apart from her study, she works as a freelancer. She is working for an interior designer's page and writes captions for their social media posts. She is a member of AIESEC India and also a volunteer in Robin Hood Army.
She strongly believes in "Your limitation—it's only your imagination."
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